4 Dont's for Guys When in an Argument with Le Girlfriends
Have you ever been in a relationship or currently in a relationship? Can you already say that the one you have in your life right now is your God's best and you feel that he really is the one for you? The one who will be your forever?
Maybe you have been together for quite sometime now. You can say that you already know his everything. And all you can say to your friends is you already found your true love.
But, do you really know him? How does he reacts when you are in an argument with something?
To all the guys out there, here are some tips while in an argument with your partner:Image Source
1. DON'T JUST LISTEN TO HER, UNDERSTAND HER
Again, when I say listen, not just plain listen with only your ears on her. Look into her eyes and feel the things, problems or suggestions that she is saying. Understand her. Know why she's now a tiger when awhile a go, she is just a cute little cat.
Again, when I say listen, not just plain listen with only your ears on her. Look into her eyes and feel the things, problems or suggestions that she is saying. Understand her. Know why she's now a tiger when awhile a go, she is just a cute little cat.
Always remember that eyes are the window to your soul. I believe that every girl in a relationship deserves to be heard.
Listen carefully and don't just nod if you really don't understand what she wants you to know. Ask things that you don't understand in order for her to know that you really care about the situation right now and you are willing to solve the problem together.
2. DON'T #$%#^@#%$ -- YOU'RE NOT ALWAYS RIGHT
Guys, please, we know that you're the man in this relationship. But hey, that doesn't mean that you are always right.
For example, your girl is saying positive things like, "I love how these attitude of ours are working on us." And then you reply with "No dear. We can never be like this without the help of my personal development book." Did I hear a 'Woah?' Yes. You read that right! There are really guys out there who are just like this -- who always want the credit to be on them. And this is a big no-no.
3. DON'T SHOUT AT US
3. DON'T SHOUT AT US
..even if we are shouting. I know this is a bit unfair. But you know, we are still girls. We may be shouting but it is not as loud and as hurting as yours guys. (Yeah, I'm talking about a typical man-woman).
We know you are hot tempered in nature but please, try to make us cool! More than that, if you did something wrong that made us shout, never ever shout at us too! Just calm us down and we will. After days.
4. DON'T YOU DARE HURT US PHYSICALLY
Don't you dare, dear love. Because you may never see us again. And girls, you are all beautiful enough not to be respected with a man like this. So guys, again, don't you dare put your heavy hands on us. Every argument hurts us emotionally, so let's not just add a black eye to that.
4. DON'T YOU DARE HURT US PHYSICALLY
Don't you dare, dear love. Because you may never see us again. And girls, you are all beautiful enough not to be respected with a man like this. So guys, again, don't you dare put your heavy hands on us. Every argument hurts us emotionally, so let's not just add a black eye to that.
Okay. Enough said or do you want me to add more? Haha. Kidding!
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And also, girls, just a piece of advice, we sometimes tend to be super-duper emotional on some things that guys really hate (Okay. I'm guilty on this.) But let's try to be cool as well and if you feel like shouting, close your eyes and say to yourself, "It's okay.. Calm down."
It will magically calm you down. A bit. Ha ha.
All relationships has to have these downs as well. I am pretty sure that these will help the couple to assess their differences and what is important is that at the end of the day, both of you still decides to be with each other, firmly believing that the relationship is worth fighting for.
Maybe you'll be asking what if the problem is third party? Personally, I guess that should the end of the story.
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